Not only do I agree that this is a safer place than facebook, I think shark infested waters are too. I'm sorry I didn't see this sooner. It's not easy to lose a parent at any age, any circumstances. It's kind of surprising, predictable as it is, it leaves a mark even in adulthood. Every few years I still have a brief meaningless dream conversation with my departed dad and for just a moment while still waking up as the fog clears, I have to remember he's long since passed. It's a surreal thing which I maintain is a sign of normal grief and not proof that I'm several cards short a full deck. All that said, it's nice she was surrounded by such love, support and faith in her final days. Would that we all have some of that. I'll be praying for you and your family.